I am fascinated, mesmerised and deeply inspired to live my best life.
I’ve been really researching and working hard towards living that life for the past half a decade, and so I wanted to share with you some of the things that you can do to start living your very best life as we embark on yet another year.
Inside the above video, you’re going to pick up 5 of my SUPER tactics. These are the big ticket items that really move me and my 1-1 private consulting clients forward in our lives.
They will allow you to live your passion, move forward with your obsession and make 2019 the year you live your best life.
TACTIC NUMBER ONE: The 25 wins list.
In our world where it's all about more, more, more, and always wanting to achieve more, all I want to do is allow you to take some time and look back on the last 12 months and ask yourself, what are the 25 wins that I achieved. These can be big, these can be small. Have a think about all the different areas of your life and really just get a A5 journal like I've got here. There's actually 25 or 26 lines down here which makes it really perfect, and what this does it's going to allow your brain to start thinking and really appreciating the journey that you've been on over the last 12 months.
We're so quick to judge ourselves when we're not making enough forward progress without really looking back and reflecting on just how far that we've come. So number the page down there and go one to 25 and have a think about all the different wins that you've had, big or small. Maybe it's that you got a new job, maybe it's that you got promoted, maybe it's that you started to get yourself into a gym routine, maybe it's that you started to eat healthy, maybe it's that you started to go on a run every now and then.
It's really just thinking about how you've started to improve and those wins that you've achieved along the way. Because you are a different person to what you were 12 months ago, sometimes we get in a negative head space and we forget that this list, there's 25 different items, and don't skimp out. Do all 25 because when you start to think a little bit differently and really go in depth ... I mean, anyone can do five or 10, but when you really start to flick that switch and go, "You know what, I'm going to get 25," then you really start to get the benefits of doing some of this work.
TACTIC NUMBER TWO: The five biggest lessons list.
What this is going to do is, of course, during the last year, there may have been some things that you probably didn't anticipate and didn't go how you planned, and we might call these challenges, we might call these failures. What I want you to do is to start to reframe those and have a think about what these actually taught you and what the lesson is that you can draw from those.
So, write down again, in your trusty journal, which I advise everyone gets, write down the five biggest lessons that you learned over the last 12 months and what they actually meant for you so you can start to draw the wisdom from that so, again, you don't make the same mistake over the next 12 months. So start to create your five biggest lessons list.
TACTIC NUMBER 3: Your five big ticket items.
So as we propel into the New Year, I want you to really think about, what are the five things that you would like to or need to have done at the end of a 12-month period to call it your best year yet? And you can go across a whole broad spectrum of your life, you can think about maybe you have to start that business, maybe you have to launch that new product, maybe you have to rekindle and start a relationship with someone. Maybe that someone is yourself.
Have a think about the five biggest things that you need to get done and finish and finalise by the end of the year for you to call it your best year yet. Write those all down, and what we're going to do is we're going to start to review these every single day. So the morning before you start your day you're going to recalibrate your mindset and have a look at those big five items and go, "You know what? These are the things I'm working towards." And when we have a goal, instead of bobbing in the ocean or bobbing like cork in the ocean, we're going to get super clear on what we want to do and we're like an arrowhead going towards our goal.
What I want for you is for you to have that super clarity. The only way you're going to get that is to start to deliberately think about what it is that you want and how you actually are going to go out there and achieve it. Which brings us to tactic number 4.
TACTIC NUMBER 4: Creating your perfect blueprint.
So what I want you to do now is create your perfect blueprint, and this is different goals, so I advise having a monthly goal in each of the areas of your life.
So we're thinking about what kind of health do I want? What kind of financial position do I want to be in? What do I want to do with my days? How do I want my relationships around me to be? And really start to think about all the different things that would need to happen in order for you to get there.
This is going to be blueprinting your entire life, so one of the ways you might like to do this is get your journal and break it into 12 different boxes, so two lines down the middle, three lines down the side. You're going to have 12 boxes, and start to think about, okay, so in January, what do I want to achieve, what would I like to get done? What's February's agenda? What's March? And so on and so forth. What we do then is we have a really good bird's eye view of what are things that we actually need to go out there and get done to call 2019 your beast year yet?
TACTIC NUMBER 5: Your action plan.
what we need to do now in the simplest most effective way possible. And there's only two letters that you need to know about this and that's do. In order to achieve any of the results in any area of your life, and I know you've heard this before but it's always worth repeating, is we need to do. We need to do the thing, especially the things that scare us. So what I want to ask you to do is inside of that blueprint start to think about, okay, so what are the things that maybe I've been trying to avoid, or maybe the things that I didn't do in 2018 that I probably should have, and how can I start to propel myself into action?
What we need to do is raise your awareness over what some of those items are so we can start to move forward with those things and really get the action happen. I want you to become and transform yourself in 2019 to become a person of action, a person of extreme value that acts on their dreams, on their hopes, on their desires, on their blueprint that they've just created.
So, if you were to do those five things, I guarantee you you're going to live an amazing life in 2019. If you need any help creating any of this stuff, please drop a comment below. I'm more than happy, or with anyone, the whole community can jump in there and help, but I'd be more than happy to point you in the right direction. Let's make 2019 your best year yet.
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